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barbara newman's avatar

Oh, my brave and courageous friend. Like you say, a victory! Seeing is the first step, always. And it is never to late to change a pattern. Rivers do it all the time. I am with you! I struggle with this too. Big love 💕

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Claire Lopez's avatar

“River do it all the time.” LOVE that! Thank you!

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Melissa's avatar

Wow - I certainly didn’t expect to see the neon flashing light above my head pointing at ME. Thank you so much for that raw and honest feedback about yourself. It’s hard and it is making me look at some certain behaviour traits I have repeated.

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Claire Lopez's avatar

It IS hard!! And it is NOT who I want to be. I can’t change it until I can see it. You’ve (we’ve) got this! Thanks for reading! I also created a video about it on TikTok and Instagram (accounts are Aging With Courage).

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Lindy Hudson's avatar

My first reaction was, “who are these horrible people who are saying bad things about you!”

My instinct is to jump into the victim hood with you and protect you from hurt.

Guess I have some patterns to look into also. I don’t want to admit that you might have something to change because then I might have to.‼️

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Claire Lopez's avatar

Thank you for being ready to bust someone up for me! 🤣🤣🤣 I truly appreciate your support!

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Claire Lopez's avatar

It’s hard looking at that stuff but it’s worth it!

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